Dating insecure control freak
It can be lies, manipulation, guilt or they may play on insecurities. That is the thing you never know with a master controller--they will lean on whatever tactic to play you.These all play a role in a relationship where one person is dominating the other through control.Look at it this way; lets say you are a building that wants to be the tallest building in town. You can build yourself up or tear the other buildings down.The controlling man tears everyone around him down to build himself up. Just when she decides to say something to the man he does something nice and so she keeps her mouth shut again and again.
Sometimes, the emotional manipulation is complex enough that the person who is being controlled actually believes that they themselves are the villain, or that they are extremely lucky that their controlling partner "puts up" with them.Controlling men, if allowed, will control every aspect of your life. After a while a woman learns that it's easier for her to just keep quiet. If you finally sit down and confront the controlling man he acts as if he doesn't know what you are talking about.In fact, most controlling men never will admit to being control freaks.She'd even gotten the impression that this fellow might be looking for someone to support him. Nikki was a professional herself -- a computer programmer -- and her work, like Max's, demanded organization and attention to detail.First Signs One thing that started to bother Nikki after six months of dating Max was his habit of cleaning up after her without giving her a chance to do it herself.